Free Psychic Question about cheating

My fiancee and I had a talk about a girl he is/was friends with who he was
texting several times a day everyday. She skype called him at 1:30 am and the
call lasted an hour. I told him I was not happy about it and it is
inappropriate. He offered to let me read all the messages. I declined and
found out today he deleted her off skype. He lent her money earlier this week
and I asked him if there was anything else I should know yesterday and he
said no. I found this out today. He was sleeping with her after we started
dating but before we were serious. If I has known this, I wouldn't have dated
him at the time. I did trust him and now I am not sure if I should. I don't know
anything else about her. He did ask if I would want to
meed her (before finding this out this week) and that's when he told me he
slept with her while he was working at this one job, He started after we were
dating. That's when I started having second thoughts and talked to him about
it. He sounded so down after and called me at work to ask if we were okay and
said he will not talk to her at all. He's since deleted her off skype. I am
still wondering if he did cut all contact and if the conversations were truly
innocent. Is she really gone and done with?
Will our relationship survive this or is it over? I will not be with someone
who thinks it's okay to chat up other women while we are together. Please
help.

Answer

he liked the idea that she was pursuing him as it appealed to his ego. He did not feel serious towards her, but she does have a "thing"
for him and has also been getting money from him... So she had nothing to loose by continuing to contact him.
I do believe he is serious about wanting to marry you and is just being a dumb guy, not realizing that his continuing to chat with her is damaging
to your relationship as well as hurtful. He has cut contact with her. However, he feels sorry for her which is why he has given her money. I feel that
he will send her one last explanation as to why he can no longer to speak to her. He is willing to let go of her, but do not be surprised when she
tries to be sneaky and contact him without you finding out. After all, he was giving her money... So, although his intentions are to keep his relationship
with you intact, she has other plans and will do what she can to undermine your relationship with him. I am going to suggest that you keep a close eye on
him and reiterate that trust is a big issue in any relationship. Then let it go, but watch his actions, his phone and his social media. Do not make a big deal
out of it after your last talk about it, but watch him as she WILL try to get back in his life.